Times passed....all settled....emotions levelled...
A few months back i wrote something about my first love(a true incident)....unforgetable

memory...

Hi...
Guys i am an engineering student and have fallen in love with a girl who has a boyfriend.
I tried to live forgetting her..but trust me guys I CANT......she was my friend but now

shes not ...thats because of my desperation...i want her back in my life....as a friend

atleast...

How do i get her? please guys if anyone could help me?

This was the story which started last year....

Many suggestions..comments...temptations came across me...
Well guys ...ive changed.. Earlier i could live by thinkin abt her...cmon...i have my own

ambitions in life..I cant ruin my life 4 a single girl who doesn like me...hah...If she is

happy i should be happy...This thought looks simple in fact is the most difficult task i've

faced in my life....Trying to be happy in embarrasing moments...

I got many beautiful suggestions 4m mah frnds...thanx to them ...thanx to all who shared

their thoughts at http://www.EnglishForward.com/English/GirlBoyfriend/cppxl/Post.htm

As said Time makes the wound bittersweet... I am now able to concentrate on mah studies...I

dont think much abt her..(which i used to..and suffered a great loss) but now..im

focused...focused on mah goals.....i hav made some new friends to divert myself from

this unpleasant life.....It worked...now i dont like 2 think about her...I dont like 2 hear

her voice...dont like 2 talk 2 her...even if she comes to me I ignore her... my god..is this

me?? things have certainly changed...

A memorable year 4 me......I learned many things in life...the

situation has completely changed me...

Sometimes when I look at the mirror a question comes in my mind.... WHO AM I??

The one who used to find moments to talk to her... or the one who is trying to find

something else he doesn't know........Who am i....??

Well that was a span of my life...Thanx for spending ur time reading this....Would u like to share sometin ??
Oh, your story is really a sad one. After all what can be more heart-struck than being turned down by the girl you like?! But life sometimes appears to be helpless. It forces you to accept the truth which means a nightmare to you. Now that you can't run away from it, accept it would be more advisable.

Actually I have had the same experience as you had. I'm ashamed to tell you that I have been turned down by two girls when I was in senior school! That's far more painful than you can image... But I got over it by setting myself in a very busy situation so that I had no time to grieve... And I went to the church, I felt peaceful there. God helped me out and I felt no longer painful.

I don't know whether you have any belief, but the way I told you is really useful. You can have a try!

Tout sera OK!
(Everything will be OK!)
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JKlijkl
whenever I feel sad I think about those persons who are in more distress.
I think about those persons who feel happy when they can arrange their meal once in a day,
then I think living the life is itself a thing of happiness and enjoyment.
Thats a very good idea Avan...where else can u find peace in this world...Emotion: smile
Jhumjhum...beautiful lines man......good thought...
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JklijklSometimes when I look at the mirror a question comes in my mind.... WHO AM I??The one who used to find moments to talk to her... or the one who is trying to find something else he doesn't know........Who am i....??Well that was a span of my life...Thanx for spending ur time reading this....Would u like to share sometin ??

Now after 11 years, I'm sure that you have found the answer. Emotion: smile