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Hi 12 year old guest. I'd like to answer your dear sweet little comments.
and listen up if you want to know if your boy friend loves you theres is a way.....if he asks you to have sex with him and you tell him your not ready and he totaly understands and tells you that he respects your wishes then he loves you


Have you ever stopped to consider that boys use tricks like this to get into girls' pants? Teenage boys will say and do almost anything to get a girl to sleep with them, so I wouldn't let them fool you that easily. You're still very young, you have yet to learn a lot about relationships. I know how you feel, I was your age just a few years ago, and I thought like you did, like I knew everything there was to know, but believe me, you have much experience and growing left ahead of you. If your virginity is so precious to you, and you really feel like you should lose it to the love of your life, don't give in just because he shows some patience, let him wait a few years, after all, if you really think he'll stick by you for the rest of your life, why not right?
Why is so much importance given here to the virginity of a girl? why is virginity associated with girls in the first place? Isn't it necessary for the boy also to preserve his virginity if he wants a virgin wife?

Virginity of mind is more important than the virginity of the body.
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I think that virginity is not physical but psychological : Some girls behaves as not-virgins even though they are still virigin, they are provocative and so on, and some girls that are not virigin and have a "stable" relation ship or HAD one looks like very good and quite girl.

Viriginity is not Good or Bad, it's simply a choice (I know, in some culutres, it's an obligation). If you know that you'll not regret to loose your virginity, it's a good choice.
How does it matter if you are a virgin or not? How does it matter to people around you? And who would know unless you told them? And why would you do that? Rather, we should be bothered about safe sex here.
I don't know if it is a good or a bad thing. That's our own choice, but the most important for me is to do the first time with someone who will understand you, and love you, and share this moment.
No one can judge the other one who is still virgin. I do agree with Anita,"how does it matter to people around"?
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well. first, i must congratulate people who are still virgins because i believe it is wrong to lose it. your body is your temple and by losing your virginity, you're defiling your temple, religiously. Even from an non-religious standpoint, losing virginity may lead to serious consequences, although it may be the Cool thing to do; you can be Cool in other ways too. and statistics has it that sex before marriage will lead to many family problems in the future, as well as economic problems. so please. i urge everyone to think twice before you act.
Why is so much importance given here to the virginity of a girl? why is virginity associated with girls in the first place? Isn't it necessary for the boy also to preserve his virginity if he wants a virgin wife?


Anita makes an excellent point. So why is virginity associated with girls?
I completely agree with Sharann.
It's not a bad thing, and certainly not a good thing either.
It's up to each people to decide what to do with his own life. If that means losing his virginity, that is his choice...

That being said, I do agree that if the first time is done with love and understanding, the better. But I'm not sure everybody can do that, or has the choice to do so. I've got a friend (male) qho is 27, and still virgin. Well I can tell you he's not happy at all about this situation, and even if he's not bad looking, he's terribly shy. And more and more he grows older, more and more he's having difficulties with girls. "What will she think when she will know I'm virgin?"... It's irrationnal of course, but that's his life. And in THAT case, I steadily advise him to just go out with a girl he just likes, make love with her, and put all theses thoughts behind him so that finally he would not be mixed-up.
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> and statistics has it that sex before marriage will lead to many family problems in the future, as well as economic problems.

Seriously kkklutch? I find this sentence a little extreme, no? You know, sex can be good tooEmotion: wink
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