Hi all ,this is a serious cultural discussion ..I would like to make a international opinion survey of this dilicate isssue...In my country ,this is considered as a depraved problem ,It violate social moral standard and can not be acceptable .However ,under considerable impact of pornographic pics,movie,website,..and other channels percentage of sex in teenage increase alarmingly.

How popular is sex in your country ?

Which age is acceptable for sex ?

Being girl,how can you deny a request of sex from your boy friend ?Being boy in love , do you think sex is the best way for your lover prove her love toward u ?

What would u have done if u have passed the limitaion and get pregnant unwarily ?

Hope to have your sincere comments.Thks for any

Due to my English is limited ,pls help to correct if I make mistake
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Hi Die hard,

I think this is really dilicate topic to discuss, so I can answer in few words. each sociaty must educates his people that they are not animales to have sex in any relations, it means should have controle on that to be human beings. for my country it deals with sex just part of marriage which is a right for each couple. so that is why we have peace sociaty.

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that depands on individual needs. sometimes we cant prevent something happen but we must consider that having sex is not only desire needs, we must get responsibilities.
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Hi Die_hard

i'm from bahrain & i'm muslim all what can i say sex before marrige in my religion is inviolable & my cultural also dont acceptable that ...

fatima


Hello,

In my culture (western-europe) having sex before mariage is a healthy thing to do. Sexual relation are parts of the human nature and going against his desires can only lead to frustration.

In europe, we have to face several centuries of religious war against pleasure and it's only for 20 or 30 years that mentalities are changing.

In my opinion, there is nothing dirty nor bad about pleasure or sexuality as long as it is done in the respect of everyone.

I'm almost maried now and I'm glad I had the chance to have sexual relations before it, that I can now spend the rest of my life without regrets.
I am so exciting when I read your post. I have some words to say.

I am a Chinese. As you all known, Chinese used to be a feudal society. So our traditional social moral standard indicates it is wrong to have sexual relationship before marriage. When I was in junior and senior school, I think that it is unacceptable for me to have sex before marriage. The minds are changing quicky, sometimes you even can't feel it. When I enter the university, what i saw and feel changed my idea.

To be frank, I am a typical traditional Chinese girl, especially I was born in a small county. Compared with the urban students, the students from the rural look more conservative, in dress style, thinking and the other aspects. I am a luck girl. I have a boyfriend. We are the classmates in the senior middle school. We love each other so much. He is a good guy, clever, enthusiastic, romatic. In my eyes, he is perfect. Entering the university, the life is totally different, we enjoy more freedom. There is no pressure like passing the entrance examination to colleage. The two universities we are in is neighbour, so we have more time to be together. We have the different characters, I am shy, especially in sexual aspect. Maybe it is only because I am a girl, a timid girl. I never hold his hands on my own initiativ, but just accept. I never refuse his love.

We stroll around the streets, holding the hands; We kiss at the corner of the playground in the dark; We touch each other's body, even the sensitive part. Honestly, the feeling is fantastic. In fact, it is not the real sex, just the prelude. We keep this relationship for three years, never pass the line. Having the sex before marriage or not is up to the individual. In my surroundings, you can saw and here that 90 persent of the students live together with their lover, especially among the junior and the senior. Some students consider that it is abnormal to have no sex after falling in love for one or two years on campus.

From my point of view, the sex is just a very important part of the marriage. Love each other and then have the sex. Having sex before marriage depends on your own choice. My suggestion is to think about the outcome of this relationship, even breaking up, gettiing pregnant. If you think that you can afford this kind of bad aftermath, the lover deserve it. Never mind how the others are thinking about you, just do it, because that is your decision, you have to be responsible for your own life instead of the others.
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SodabuzzHello,

In my culture (western-europe) having sex before mariage is a healthy thing to do. Sexual relation are parts of the human nature and going against his desires can only lead to frustration.

In europe, we have to face several centuries of religious war against pleasure and it's only for 20 or 30 years that mentalities are changing.

In my opinion, there is nothing dirty nor bad about pleasure or sexuality as long as it is done in the respect of everyone.

I'm almost maried now and I'm glad I had the chance to have sexual relations before it, that I can now spend the rest of my life without regrets.

So do I...
Hi Fatima,

I hope you remember me I am really happy about your concern on sex, yes we are in rich in culture and we are blessed by the Allah / god the relationship of Marriage. Hence I agree with your comments.

gr8 bye

Ajit
YoHf
SodabuzzHello,

In my culture (western-europe) having sex before mariage is a healthy thing to do. Sexual relation are parts of the human nature and going against his desires can only lead to frustration.

In europe, we have to face several centuries of religious war against pleasure and it's only for 20 or 30 years that mentalities are changing.

In my opinion, there is nothing dirty nor bad about pleasure or sexuality as long as it is done in the respect of everyone.

I'm almost maried now and I'm glad I had the chance to have sexual relations before it, that I can now spend the rest of my life without regrets.
So do I...
and to me, it's the same thing!
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