This is not any sexually linked question nor any nonsense question.I just want to make a survery and research on the public relating this issue.I choose this title as my Human Development subject's assignment title because it is interesting and nobody have ever mentioned it before.
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hands, fingers, shoulders, eyes
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If we lived in a society were everyone was a perfect photocopy of the next person, then it would be sensible to answer this question in a single word (e.g. legs, hair, etc). But because everyone is very different, you always notice their most outstanding feature. It's wishful thinking to say "I always look at a person's hands first," or "I always look at the hair." If you're approached by a person whose most outstanding feature is a big nose, that's the first thing you'd notice. Think of how you remember your friends. Do you remember them all by their hands?

"Aah Michael! Yes I know him -- knobbly knuckles. He's married to Liz, who's double jointed. They've got a daughter who bites her nails -- I can always tell -- flaky skin around the fingernails, you know."

The human eye is drawn to difference, something which stands out (e.g. yellow warning signs painted on a tarmaced road), and this difference is how we identify people.

Clothes are often designed to draw attention to a particular part of the body: a slogan accross the front of a t-shirt, a low cut dress, a short skirt, a short-sleeved t-shirt, etc. These clothes work because that's the first part of the body we look at.

I've never quite thought of it like that, but you are absolutely right!
no doubt its eyes and hands
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Hmmm, definitely the eyes.
That's very true Matthewq. You tend to look at the thing(s) that are different or that stick out.

I found it interesting how people have said hands. I pretty much never look at them unless they are writing something.

I think one of the most frequent things that are looked at would be the person's face in general, probably first starting with the eyes. But then again in some cultures it is considered rude or disrespectful to look directly into someone's eyes (and sometimes the face it covered).
That's true. In some African cultures young men are forbidden to look their look their elders in the eye, and will actually bow down in front of them and stare at their feet during conversation. In most Western societies it's the opposite: eye contact is an important part of conversation.
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